Are transexual a great turn on for guys? Do they actually prefer transexual to real woman? what is that turn on in transexual? Lust? or truly friends?

Been to mdm wong today. I was with this gal friend of mine and a few of my friends. We sat there drinking for a while, club hop to angel, drank more and club hop back to Mdm wong. Then there was this group of tall ladies who came in and they created commotion. I couldnt help but to notice them too. They look attractive and they were all tall and slender. Very attractive. *drools* they have the near to perfect figure and their looks were considered above average. I thought,"wow, so many attractive ladies.. i am sure all the guys will go gaga over them." But when one of them came near to me and ordered drink at the bar, i was shocked. They were transexual. Beautiful transexual!
My friends and i looked at each other and gave each other knowingly looks. One of my guy friends actually went to one of them and offered her drinks. I wonder why he did that. Was it out for fun, out of curiousity or out for socialising? I dont like it when i feel that people actually mock at them. They tried to get near them because they are curious or for fun. It is so insulting. OUt for fun as in ONS, or curious like they are some caged animal from the zoo? They are normal human beings too!(er..just that they undergo sex change that many of us dont.)
This is not the first time i met trans in clubs. I used to have this idea that they hate girls and think of us as bitches. I think that's kinda sterotype. i happened to meet one some time ago at Chinablack. Still remember her name was Alpha. We were both dancing on the podium and she danced really well and sexy. With the sterotype thinking of "trans hating females", i just kept to myself all the way on the podium, occassionally stealing glances at her doing her sexy dance. And then i caught her eye and she smiled at me. We then started a conversation. She was friendly and nice, like any normal human. But one cant change all my perspective. So i continue to be reserved when it comes to making friends with trans.
Seriously i have nothing against them but i really wonder what actually goes through a guy's mind when they befriend/pick them up? A quarter hour past after they came in and all of them seemed to have a guy beside them now. I felt so embarassed. haha..and felt a drop in my self esteem. I had been at mdm wong for half the nite and non of the guys came to pick me up! =X lol..ops i was jealous! The guys were not the typical lao peis peis but they were quite charming! One of them even qualified by 'cute guy' criteria. Oh..what should i think?
ok, put it this way. Guy see girl. *thinking process 1 unknown* Pick girl up. Guy see trans. *thinking process 2 unknown* pick trans up. So what's the difference between the two unknown thinking process ? what actually goes on guys mind? hmm...

oh yea, something to share. Jimmy and i held hands today at mdm wong! whahahhahahs.. kk i am so excited over something that's not exactly exciting. Duh. but he held my hands. i didnt do anything ah! i was reading janice hp msg and was concentrating on reading it when he was trying to catch my attention over something that i aint very sure of. Then i felt someone grab my hand and held it tight. i thought it was janice. Then i realise..omg!! its jimmy!!!!! loL~~~ lalala.. and on the cab..he asked if i have any money with me. I thought he wanted to ask me to pay for part of my cab fare (which i dont mind) so i told him i am only left with six bucks. Its enough if we split cost. He gave me $30 for the cab which was way too much!!(i only need $20)..and an additional $8! i asked him why he did he couldnt give me an answer. So sweet of him!!! or am i just being excited over nothing? ah..whatever it is, at least he made my day. =)




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@3/19/2004 04:59:00 am