What are u guys opinion of a bar top dancer? My boss called me up today and asked if i am interested to be trained as a bar top dancer. Her offer excites me! coz i always love to dance and i love looking at those bar top dancers dance! its so sexy(though its sometimes way too slutty). By being a bar top dancer, it also means more income but i get many negative response..and that of course includes my boyfriend's.

he's back to vietnam and we haven have a chance to discuss it nicely but i need to tell my boss already! so i msged him to get his approval but he's strongly against it! i dont know what i should do! i really think that its cool! and i wana learn it but he's against it coz he thinks that this kinda money dont come very easy. Sigh. i dont want this thing to affect us. As in, i dont wana do it behind his back and hurt him. ahhh! this is really bothering me because i wana learn it so much but i know that he's not going to change his mind abt it. Should i go for what i should do or what i want to do?!?!?

I still remember i faced his dilema when i was with Ric. I wanted to joined the SPSU(something like student council in sp) but he thought it was too much on me and asked me not to join. Kinda regret not joining coz i believe it will do me more good than harm. i will spend more time on SPSU and reduce times for clubbing..rite? but how can i be sure?! it didnt happen to make me experience it! So now.. should i follow my bf's opinion or my own?!


You've got the poison, I've got the remedy.
@11/22/2004 03:38:00 am